Ukusiza abanye
Ungangenelela nini.
Ukwazi izimpawu ezixwayisa ngezinselele ngempilo yengqondo kufana nokuba nezidingo zosizo lokuqala – kukusiza ukuba ubone uma wena noma omaziyo engahle adinge ukwesekwa kakhudlwana.
Okufanele ukubheke
Izinguquko ngokulala
Ukulala kakhulu noma kancane kakhulu
Ukuba neconsi
Ukujika isigubhukane endleleni ophatheke ngayo emphefumulweni
Ukuba wedwana
Ukuqhela kubangane nasemndenini
Izinguquko ezindleleni zokudla
Ukudla kakhulu noma kancane kunokwejwayelekile
Izimpawu emzimbeni
Ikhanda elibuhlungu, ukubophana emzimbeni, izinhlungu ezingaqondakali
Ukungabi nandaba
Ukungathokozeli izinto ojwayele ukuzenza
Uma uqaphela lezi zimpawu kuwena noma omunye umuntu, funa usizo. Uma uzwa sengathi omthandayo usengozini yokuzilimaza yena noma abanye, xhumana nolunye lwezingcingo zosizo.
Thola usizo lapha
Yenza
Vele usondele eduze
Ncika eduze kwabo, ngokwethembeka nangokuvuleleka. Bavumele bakutshele abakudingayo.
Lalelisisa kahle, ngaphandle kokwahlulela
Yiba khona ngokuphelele, lalela ungaphazamisi - ngisho ukunqekuzisa ikhanda kungaba lusizo.
Vumelana nemizwa yabo
Imizwa yabo ibalulekile - buza imibuzo evulekile efana nokuthi "Uzizwa kanjani muva nje?"
Jwayela ukuzomqalaza
Thumela umlayezo noma ubuze, "Uzizwa kanjani?" ukukhombisa ukuthi unaye kulokhu abhekene nakho
Nikeza usizo olucacile nolusebenzayo
Zama ukuthi “Ngizokwenzela isidlo sakusihlwa ngoMsombuluko?” noma "Uma usukulungele, singafuna ukwesekwa sinawe."
Ungalokothi
Uyithathe kancane indlela abazizwa ngayo
Benze bazi ukuthi kulungile ukwabelana ngemizwa yabo ngaphandle kokwesaba ukwahlulelwa.
Uzame ukuxazulula noma unikeze izeluleko ezingaceliwe
Ngezinye izikhathi badinga nje ukukhuluma. Lalela kunokuba uzame ngokushesha ukulungisa izinkinga zabo.
Ubaphoqe ukuba bakhulume
Badedele bagonyuluke ngesivinini sabo basho abakudingayo.
Ubacabangele, wenze sengathi uyazi ukuthi kwenzekani noma uqhathanise imizwa.
Uhambo lomuntu nomuntu lwehlukile. Ukuthi “Mina sengedlule kokunzima kunalokhu” kwenza isimo sibe sibi ngokwedlulele, kubukele phansi abakuzwayo.
Uchithe njengento engelutho
Impilo yengqondo akuyona indaba yokuthi uzimisele noma awuzimisele – ungalokothi usho izinto ezifana nokuthi “Akuyona into etheni” noma “Vele ukhohlwe yilento”. Ukubuyela esimweni kudinga isikhathi.
Khumbula ukuthi kumayelana nohambo lwabo, hhayi lwakho.